For execs in their 40s who lack the time (but have the drive) to get in shape — while juggling teams, travel, and family.
Every fitness influencer wants you tracking 160g protein, 90g fat, 200g carbs. Every. Single. Day. Like you're some 22-year-old kid living in mom's basement with unlimited time to weigh chicken breast and log every almond. Sure, beats white-knuckling keto again. We all know how that story ends - great for 6 weeks, then you're face-deep in a sleeve of crackers at 11 PM after another stressful day. But here's the thing: Obsessing over every macro is just as unsustainable. Try hitting those numbers exactly when you're closing deals in Dallas, managing teams across three time zones, and eating client dinners twice a week. You can't. And the anxiety of trying will break you faster than any carb craving ever could. My Wake-Up CallFor years, I tracked everything obsessively. Felt accomplished when I hit MyFitnessPal targets. Then I started training more intuitively. Focused on protein and calories, let everything else fall where it felt right. Something crazy happened: I got stronger. Recovery improved. Training felt effortless instead of forced. Most importantly? I could actually live my life without a food scale. That's when I knew I had to change how I coached my clients. Enter RyanFormer D1 lineman, now CEO. 364 lbs when we started. He'd tried everything - keto, carnivore, macro tracking apps that made him feel like a data entry clerk. The pattern was always the same: Extreme restriction → brief success → life stress → complete breakdown. "I've lost the same 40 lbs five different times. I need to figure out how to actually eat, not just follow another set of rules that fall apart the moment I travel." Ryan wasn't looking for another diet. He was looking for freedom. We Ditched the SpreadsheetsInstead of 160g protein, 90g fat, 200g carbs, we focused on principles:
Some days Ryan crushed 300g of carbs (client dinners with pasta and dessert). Other days, maybe 80g (steak and asparagus). Fat intake? Anywhere from 60-150g depending on what felt right. The ResultsTwo years later? Down 110 lbs. From 364 to 254. But here's what really matters - what Ryan told me last month: "When we started, you said the goal was to help me figure out how to eat. We did that. For the first time ever, this feels sustainable." Ryan created his own rules:
Sometimes he goes higher carb, sometimes higher fat - depends on the day. He knows intuitively how to eyeball portions and make choices that work. It's not perfect. He still has to think about it. But it's nowhere near the psychotic precision that used to control his life. Ryan finally got the freedom he'd been chasing since his playing days ended. The Bottom LineEven pro bodybuilders are moving away from rigid macro tracking now. Calories and protein, let everything else flow naturally. If it works for guys stepping on stage, it'll work for you running companies and crushing quarterly targets. You don't need to track macros like it's 2012. You need to understand what protein and calories do for your goals, then trust your body and lifestyle to find the rhythm that actually works. That's how you stay lean, strong, and sane - whether you're in a conference room or on vacation with your family. Because the goal isn't perfect macros. The goal is freedom.
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For execs in their 40s who lack the time (but have the drive) to get in shape — while juggling teams, travel, and family.