For execs in their 40s who lack the time (but have the drive) to get in shape — while juggling teams, travel, and family.
I had a call a while back with a guy I'll call Mike. Successful executive. Father of a 5-year-old. Up at 5:30 AM, five days a week, crushing it at the gym. 100 push-ups. Sprints. Weights. Steam room. The whole thing. Lost 15 pounds. Feeling stronger. Looking better than he has in years. "I'm making progress," he told me. "I can see results in the mirror." But then he paused. "The thing is... I'm putting in all this effort, five days a week, and I keep wondering if there's a better way to do it. Like, am I being as efficient as I could be?" The ParadoxHere's the thing about executives like Mike - and probably like you - you're chronic optimizers in every other area of your life. Your business systems? Obsessively refined. Your investment portfolio? Constantly rebalanced. Your time management? Down to the minute. But your training? You're making it up as you go. And because you're disciplined, because you're consistent, because you're not lazy... you get "pretty good" results. Just good enough to feel satisfied. Just good enough to think you've got it figured out. Just good enough to never pull the trigger on actually optimizing the thing that matters most in your 40s - your healthspan. The Blind SpotI see this all the time with executives. They'll spend $50K on a business coach without blinking, but they'll wing their fitness because they're "in pretty good shape." Meanwhile, they're doing 100 push-ups with elevated feet when 20 properly progressed reps would build more muscle. They're doing random exercises with no real intent. They're following a Mediterranean diet they read about online instead of understanding their actual macro needs. It's like optimizing your marketing budget by throwing money at every channel and calling it good because revenue went up 5%. You know better than that in business. But in the gym? "Pretty good" is somehow accepted. What's Actually PossibleWhat Mike doesn't know yet is what happens when you actually optimize this stuff. I've got clients who dropped from 5-day gym marathons to 3-day targeted sessions and saw more muscle growth in 3 months than they had in 2 years of grinding. Executives who used to drag themselves through afternoon meetings now have the same energy at 6 PM that they had at 6 AM. Guys who finally understand their macros well enough to eat confidently at any restaurant, on any business trip, without stressing about "eating clean." That's what real optimization looks like in your 40s. You're not just maintaining. You're not just "pretty good." You're building something that compounds - strength that carries you through decades, energy that doesn't fade by lunch, confidence that comes from knowing your body is an asset, not a liability. The QuestionMike's got the discipline. He's got the consistency. He's putting in the work. What he doesn't have is someone who understands how to design systems that actually match his goals and his life. Someone who gets that he doesn't need more motivation - he needs intelligent programming. Someone who knows the difference between sweating for an hour and training for results. Your 40s are your defining decade. Not because time is running out, but because this is when you have the resources, the maturity, and the motivation to build something real. The question isn't whether you'll keep working out. You've already proven that. The question is whether you're ready to swallow the pride, ditch that Frankenstein of an approach and finally do what gets results. And if you are, hit reply and let's see if your current approach is actually serving your 40s goals. P.S. Mike isn’t my usual prospect. Most guys come to me because they can’t afford to wait. But if you’re like Mike - disciplined, consistent, yet frustrated with the lack of progress - it’s not about trying harder. It’s about upgrading the system. Same effort, but channeled through a process built for your body, your schedule, your goals. It's how you build real efficiency and turn it into immediate results. |
For execs in their 40s who lack the time (but have the drive) to get in shape — while juggling teams, travel, and family.